Monthly Archives: November 2010
At The Top of My List
Well, I wrote a nice post while I’ve been sitting here at the hotel with my little ones waiting for G to come out of his Dungeness Crab Association meeting.
Then, I accidentally deleted it.
Guess I’m not as iPhone-savvy as I like to think!
So here I am reporting from the Coast via iPhone, posting a picture of the angels that will forever remain at the top of my Thankful List.
Happy 3rd Birthday, Blog. Time for a Change?
It’s been three years since Highliners and Homecomings was born. Since then, I’ve made many changes and added several upgrades. (I won’t bore you with behind-the-scenes bloggy details.)
However, WordPress has come out recently with several new themes that allow easier creative control. By “creative control” I mean a more functional layout without knowing CSS code, which I’ve learned to enhance the blog this last year.
I’m the first to admit I don’t like change. I’ve worked hard to grow and improve this blog the past three years and have actually enjoyed learning CSS so I could keep the layout of Highliners and Homecomings fresh and interesting.
I also don’t like standing still.
So, it’s up to you guys. You answer the poll; each of you gets one vote. Whether you’re a regular reader it’s your first time visiting, VOTE!
Oh, and Happy Third Birthday, Blog! You are so much fun and every day is a new adventure. Here’s to many more years together!
Update:
Hey, this a great Third Birthday Present for Highliners and Homecomings. We just received a 96 out of 100 from a professional blog grader. Very happy!

Check out the Dungeness Crab Crew in Action!!
Presenting the bravest, strongest, hottest, sweetest, most awesome Dungeness crab crew ever….
Watch the brand new video!!!
Nice job George, Bryan, Brett, and Brandon!!!
And great work putting together your first ever YouTube video, G!
Ten Years Later and Going Strong.
Ten years ago, I sat on the floor of my bedroom on a dark and wintry December evening, poring over several back issues of National Fisherman magazine that focused on boat building. I was preparing for the latest assignment I’d taken as a freelance writer for National Fisherman. It was an assignment for which I did not feel qualified; the building of the 2.5 million dollar fishing vessel, Shemya, at Fred Wahl Marine Construction.
I’d written a few short articles and one large feature for National Fisherman in the seven months since I’d started writing for the magazine, but I knew next to nothing about building boats. For my first feature, I’d convinced a longtime fishing family friend, Ryan, to take me out to sea on his vessel for a story on the sardine fishery out of Astoria, Oregon.
While very familiar with fishing, having grown up in a fishing family and fishing myself in Southeast Alaska for several summers, I was not schooled in the art of boat building. And this time, I’d be interviewing strangers, not friends. I decided I’d better refresh myself on basic terms before I could even hope to conduct a coherent interview.
I called Dad.
Dad had commissioned the building of his own boat a decade earlier, and I figured he could give me a crash course on the subject.
“Hull plating?” I asked.
“The steel on the outside of the boat,” Dad answered.
“Keel?”
“The vertical piece of steel at the bottom of the boat, the center of the boat. The backbone of the boat.”
“Stem?”
“The bow of the boat at center line.”
I had no idea what that last one meant, but I kept going.
“Bulkhead?”
“The partition between two different areas of the boat. A wall. It separates the boat into compartments.”
“Power train?”
“The engine, reduction gear, shaft. And the prop.”
“Prop…?” I asked.
“Propeller,” Dad answered.
I’m not sure, but I think I began to detect the faintest note of weariness in Dad’s voice. I knew Dad was proud of my work for National Fisherman; after all, it was he who’d first suggested I try my hand at writing for the magazine and encouraged me to contact the editor, Jerry Fraser.
I worried, though, if I’d be able to pull this one off. Had Michael Crowley, the Boats and Gear editor, made a mistake? What would Fred Wahl think of a young lady coming down to Reedsport to interview him on the state-of-the art Shemya? Would I end up inadvertently insulting everyone and making a fool out of myself?
Of course, we all know how the story ended.
I wound up marrying the partner/captain that I interviewed that afternoon at the boatyard, and the rest is history. And ten years since we met (and added two kids, two dogs, one fishing vessel, one blog and a truck or two), I love that all the original players are still in the game.
The following are pictures of all the fellows (taken at this year’s Pacific Marine Expo) who had confidence that I could pull off a story out of my comfort zone, had patience with me as I did my work, and who mean so much to us a decade later.
At least, they mean a lot to me.
As George went around Fish Expo shaking hands with these guys–all of whom played a part in our meeting and eventual marriage–his greeting was accompanied by these words:
“I don’t know whether to shake your hand or give you a right hook.”

My dad, who said "You can do it."

The subject of my first feature for NF, Ryan. Also his sweet wife, Jenny, who was a player in my most recent feature for NF. And of course, G and me...holding a wine glass at a recent party.

Jerry, the Editor in Chief who gave me a chance at writing, Michael Crowley, who sent me on my first boat building story, and Jes, the new Editor in Chief of National Fisherman.

Mike Lee of Fred Wahl Marine Construction, who ten years ago answered my questions, gave me a spec sheet and a tour of the Shemya...all without letting on whether he wondered if this girl had any idea what she was doing.

The man himself, Fred Wahl, who made the official introduction between my future husband and me.

Ten years later...
A Tremendous Pacific Marine Expo 2010!
My family and I attended 2010 Pacific Marine Expo yesterday and had an incredible afternoon. Vincent slept through the first two hours of the event but rallied in time to enjoy a chocolate dipped sugar cookie in the shape of a salmon and to collect a few pens and candy.
Eva was a trooper the entire afternoon and even wore her own badge this year as we traveled up and down aisles, said hello to a ton of people and collected vendor goodies.
We really scored this year. Among our take were two nice-looking John Deere baseball caps, a frisbee, child sunglasses, foam killer whale toys, pencils, pens, pencil sharpeners, bike reflectors, yo yos, fish key chain clip-ons, cute little stuffed frogs, insulated beer bottle holders, and bumper stickers from Commercial Fishermen of America and National Fisherman magazine.
We had three generations with us (Dad, George and me, Eva and Vincent) and we all thoroughly enjoyed ourselves. George and I saw all our old friends (the gang from National Fisherman and Fred Wahl Marine Construction), Dad saw a ton of fishermen he knows, and both George and Dad ran into their maritime accountant.
Oh, how could I forget the biggest score of all? Xtra Tuff was giving away FREE boots to all children! The only deal was the children had to wear them around Fish Expo while they were there. It was too cute seeing all of these little girls and boys with their Xtra Tuffs on! One lady was so very disappointed her young one wasn’t there to receive a pair that we handed over Vincent’s new boots, then trotted him through the booth again wearing a slightly different outfit and accompanied by a different parent.
Anyway, the Events Center was absolutely packed with vendors, extremely smiley attendees, and the energy was contagious. I’m so glad the 2010 Pacific Marine Expo was a success. I hope you enjoy a few of my pictures. I decided to ignore the large sign that clearly stated NO PHOTOGRAPHY so I could remember the day in detail.
I’m working on a separate post that will include my pictures of our National Fisherman and Fred Wahl Marine Construction friends. Stay tuned.

Eva proudly displaying her badge.

My girl loves to pose.

Vincent still sleeping...

Three Generations.

Hooray for Grandpa, Pacific Marine Expo, and Free Boots!

Vincent's Awake!!
What Would My Reality Show Be Called? (Plinky)

This Plinky prompt is almost too easy.
I’d call my reality show “Behind the Blog: The Real Seasons of Commercial Fishing Families and Friends.”
Oh, yes. It’s almost too much to contemplate! I’m seriously cracking up to myself as I develop my fake show right here at my desk.
The other week, I was out with George and others who shall remain anonymous. As can happen, the night grew rather hilarious…to put it mildly.
Hey, that’s just the way we roll—sometimes. But as I told one of the anonymous others, “This is the stuff that does not make the blog.”
Indeed, there are “things” and otherwise that I’m held to the fire and sworn to never write about!
But in this imaginary world of Plinky prompts, I would turn on the cameras and capture the sane, the silly, the crazy, the sad, the hilarious, and the fun alongside the strength, work, family, bravery, and genuine friendship.
Oh wait—it just occurred to me. If the cameras were rolling, that means they’d be on me, too.
Forget it!! :-)
Captain on Sea…and Shore, Apparently.
The other morning, I awoke and found George in the kitchen making smoothies. This is normal. George and Eva often enjoy the early morning hours together making smoothies while Vincent and I sleep in as possibly long as we can. On “big breakfast” mornings, Eva helps Daddy crack eggs, discuss different kinds of waffles, and plan the day ahead as they sit together at the dining room table.
Vincent and I eventually emerge in search of coffee and his “regular milk/chocolate milk” sippy cup combo.
I cuddle with both children in our over-sized and overstuffed recliner and watch the news and weather until it’s time to get ready for our day. At that point, I disappear into my room to get ready, keeping an ear out for whatever is transpiring in other corners of the house.
The other day as I got ready, it seemed like I was hearing George’s voice a lot. It echoed from the kitchen, down the hall, and into our bedroom.
“Eva, time to get dressed.”
“Vincent, you need to go potty.”
“Mandy, go lay down.”
Next thing I knew, G was grabbing my housecleaning caddy.
“What are you doing?” I asked.
“This toilet needs to be cleaned,” he answered.
“This toilet isn’t bad at all,” I replied. (But heck; if someone wants to clean a toilet, go for it!)
I went back to our bedroom.
“Vincent, stop. Eva, get dressed. Time to get going,” I heard.
I came out of our room and walked down the hall to G.
“It seems like every time I hear your voice this morning, you are sort of ordering people around,” I said gently. “Telling everyone what to do.”
I studied an array of emotion cross my husband’s face as he pondered my assessment.
Then, he lifted his arm and pointed down the hall toward our bedroom.
“Mommy, go get ready for Jazzercise,” he said.
What else could I do but laugh….and get ready for Jazzercise?

Daddy's Home From Westport!

Goodnight, Babies.
Building Pallets & Rigging Crab Pots in the Sunshine
A couple years ago, I wrote a series of posts on the rigging of Dungeness crab gear. I won’t go through all the details again, but if you missed it the first time around or are interested, you can read about it here.
This year, the gang added the building of pallets to the pre-season gear work. I wondered why they were building new pallets when the web lockers seemed to be full of them already.
“We built the pallets 3×3 to store and transport the crab pots. A stack of pots–five pots–fits on a 3×3 pallet perfectly. A standard pallet is much bigger and takes up too much room in the lockers,” G explained.
Since I had his attention, I called out one more question from my seat on the family room couch.
“Do you have any thoughts on the season ahead?”
“Not so far,” G called back from the dinner table, where he sat eating a delicious rotisserie chicken in a butter and garlic glaze and a side of three-cheese tortellini…that I bought at the local deli.
“It’s too early,” he continued. “But so far, no two years have ever been the same, so I’m curious as to what this year will be like.”
Thanks for snapping all of these great pics for me, G!
Happy Halloween!
Some time ago, Eva informed me she wanted to be a kitty for Halloween.
“That is so sweet,” I thought. I immediately went online and researched girl’s kitty costumes.
WOW.
I did not expect to find what I found. Headband ears, long tails, short sequined skirts and racy tights, modeled by young girls, was not exactly the look I had in mind for my four-year-old.
I searched throughout the night and eventually found a costume in line with our needs: an innocent, sweet, furry, little girl’s kitty costume (pictured on Eva below).
I was a bit taken aback that it took no time at all to find a kitty costume a playmate might wear (even though my search specifically mentioned “child”), but quite a bit of searching to find a kitty costume a small child might wear.
No matter.
I was in tears this evening when I watched my Eva and Vincent trick-or-treat door-to-door for the very first time. Last year, we went to our small downtown to trick or treat at local businesses. This year, Eva opted out of that in favor of the neighborhood door-to-door. She couldn’t wait to have Vincent go up and ring our neighbors’ doorbells, then stand back with him and sing “Trick or Treat!”
Most of you know that I struggled with infertility before I was blessed with the miracle of Eva, and then Vincent. I never dreamed I would be so surprised, so lucky, to have children to take to parades or dress up for Halloween.
As I watched my two precious babies cross the streets with Daddy, ring bells, and look back at me for encouragement, I was overcome with love and gratitude.
Speaking of Daddy, he goes back to work tomorrow. He’s not going to sea yet, but he will be at the harbor every day with the crew getting ready for the Dungeness crab season. We do not want him to start work again, but I just keep reminding myself that at least we can visit the harbor and he is still in cell coverage.
Happy Halloween, all.



































